Yes, I am searching for a solution but not for myself, its for my best buddy Anuj, its almost one and half month, and I didn't saw any kind of effort from anuj, to make some prog. for weekend (Which we usually do on every sat. eve.) Even didn't get any kind of enthu. responce or even a small smile on his face whenever we met on sat eve or sun., Might be he is in some kind of trouble, may be Family, Office Politics, Gals or anyother, but i can't expect a kind of ignorance behavior from him.
Its almost 10 Yrs now, we been together sharing all kind of thoughts, ideas, personal matters with each other, even took suggestions for some important decisions of our life (including proposing a gal).
But now i think he is hiding sumthing from me.
Even on last night when we were just walkin down the street, just near to DC-Chowk, I asked "you know there is sumthing wrong with you, I didn't see any kind of excitement or enthu. on ur face when we all met, and every time you are mentally somewhere else into your own world, You can share if anythin troubling you.
And he replied "I know, but even i am not able to find any reason for such annoying stuff." and followed with a long silence.
I am seriously in search for sum kind of solution, to end the whole bug into the system of friendship.
Its almost 10 Yrs now, we been together sharing all kind of thoughts, ideas, personal matters with each other, even took suggestions for some important decisions of our life (including proposing a gal).
But now i think he is hiding sumthing from me.
Even on last night when we were just walkin down the street, just near to DC-Chowk, I asked "you know there is sumthing wrong with you, I didn't see any kind of excitement or enthu. on ur face when we all met, and every time you are mentally somewhere else into your own world, You can share if anythin troubling you.
And he replied "I know, but even i am not able to find any reason for such annoying stuff." and followed with a long silence.
I am seriously in search for sum kind of solution, to end the whole bug into the system of friendship.
Your concern for your friend is genuine but you got to understand that he as an individual needs his space and there would be things he might not share with you. While your concern is valid, I feel you got to respect his stance of not telling you. I am not saying that you shouldn't try to help him but what I am saying is there's got to be some reason he is not telling it to you and for now you should accept it. And the kind of friends that you seem to be I am sure he will tell you soon.
ReplyDeleteAnd if you can't wait, sit together one evening with a few bottles and maybe that will make him speak ;)
On a serious note make him read your blog - that should help.
Ohhhh I try that idea of yours, Get together in evening with some bottles, But that didn't work, He is saying Dr. advise him to take a 2-3 month leave from hard drinks........
ReplyDeleteSorry, forget to mention it in my blog.